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A COLLABORATIVE FAMILY LAW FIRM

No one wins in divorce court. Call a truce.

Divorce doesn't have to be a battle. We help Washington families resolve divorce, custody, and family matters through agreement — protecting your relationships, your savings, and your peace of mind.

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WHY COLLABORATIVE

“Adversarial divorce is known for high conflict, high stress, and costs that can run from fifteen thousand to two hundred thousand dollars. Skip the battle — call a truce.”

Justin W. Aanenson
Justin W. Aanenson
Attorney, Truce Law
Lower cost Resolving out of court typically costs a fraction of litigation.
Less conflict Agreement-first process designed to protect co-parenting relationships.
Faster Most matters filed by mail or electronically — often no court appearance at all.

A calmer way through, whatever you're facing

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Also: parenting plans · child support · legal separation · adoption · guardianship · estate planning · and more

CHOOSING YOUR PATH

Which path fits your situation?

There's no single right way to end a marriage — only the way that's right for the two of you. Here's an honest look at how the options compare, including the one we'd rather help you avoid.

UNCONTESTED
MEDIATED
COLLABORATIVE
Best when
You already agree on the big things
You're close, but a few issues feel stuck
Finances or parenting are complex, and you each want your own counsel
Who decides
The two of you
The two of you, with a neutral guide
The two of you, each advised by your own attorney
Court appearances
Usually none
Usually none
Usually none
Relative cost
$
$$
$$$

For comparison: a contested courtroom divorce in Washington commonly costs $15,000–$200,000, takes a year or more, and leaves the final decisions to a judge. Every path above keeps those decisions with you. Not sure which fits? We'll tell you honestly.

KNOW BEFORE YOU FILE

Divorce in Washington, explained plainly

A few things about Washington law surprise almost everyone. Knowing them now will save you stress later.

No one is "at fault"

Washington is a no-fault state. You never have to prove wrongdoing — only that the marriage is irretrievably broken. No blame, no airing of grievances.

90 days, minimum

A divorce can't be finalized sooner than 90 days after filing. With an agreement in hand, many of our clients finish close to that minimum.

Property is shared

Washington is a community property state — most of what you earned or acquired during the marriage belongs to both of you and must be divided fairly.

Kids need a plan

If you have children, the court requires a parenting plan — a written agreement covering schedules, decisions, and support. We help you build one that actually works.

Wondering how these apply to your situation? Ask us in a free-of-pressure case evaluation.

HOW IT WORKS

Four steps from where you are to where you want to be

Step one

Pick your process

Together we choose the path that fits: uncontested, collaborative, or mediated.

Step two

Work out the details

Talk through the specifics with your spouse and fine-tune the agreement with your attorney.

Step three

Prepare the papers

We draft every document and you sign electronically — no printing, no notary runs.

Step four

Resolve without court

We file electronically or by mail, and a judge signs off — usually with no court appearance.

Ready to move forward peacefully? Meet online or in person — whatever works for your schedule.
OUR ATTORNEYS

People first. Then paperwork.

You'll work with attorneys who chose family law because they believe there's a better way through it. We listen first, explain everything in plain English, and never push you toward a fight you don't want.

Justin W. Aanenson
Justin W. Aanenson
Attorney · Collaborative divorce & mediation
Christy Kettel
Christy Kettel
Family law
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FOR PARENTS

Your marriage is ending. Your family isn't.

Research and experience agree: what hurts children isn't divorce itself — it's prolonged conflict between their parents. Every part of our process is built to lower that conflict.

You'll leave with a parenting plan you both shaped and can actually follow — school schedules, holidays, decisions, support — and a working relationship with your co-parent that survives the paperwork. You'll still be at the same graduations, weddings, and birthdays. We help you get there on speaking terms.

How parenting plans work

Kind words from calmer endings

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YOUR FIRST CALL

Reaching out is the hardest part. Here's what happens next.

Most people put off calling a lawyer because they're bracing for pressure, jargon, or a bill. A case evaluation with us is none of those things — it's a calm conversation about where you are and what your options actually look like.

Schedule your evaluation
1

We listen first

You tell us what's going on — at your pace, in your words. Everything you share is confidential, whether or not you hire us.

2

You get straight answers

We explain your options in plain English — including whether you need a lawyer at all. If a simpler or cheaper path serves you better, we'll say so.

3

You see the road ahead

Before we hang up, you'll know the likely process, timeline, and cost for your situation — no surprises later.

4

You decide — no pressure

Take the time you need. If and when you're ready, our secure online intake gets everything started from home.

COMMON MISCONCEPTIONS

The myths that keep people stuck in bad situations

“Divorce means going to court.”

Almost never true. The overwhelming majority of Washington divorces settle without a trial. With an uncontested or collaborative process, most of our clients never set foot in a courtroom — a judge signs off on the agreement you wrote.

“Hiring a lawyer will make things hostile.”

The opposite, done right. A settlement-focused attorney lowers the temperature: they translate the law, keep conversations on track, and stop small disagreements from becoming expensive fights.

“Agreeing quickly means I'll get a worse deal.”

Settling isn't surrendering. In a collaborative process you have your own attorney checking every term. The difference is you negotiate from shared information instead of fighting through discovery — you keep the money a trial would burn.

“It's too late — things are already tense.”

Tense is normal. You don't need to be on friendly terms to stay out of court — you just need a structure for the hard conversations. That's exactly what mediation and the collaborative process provide.

Not sure where to start?

Answer a few quick questions and we'll tell you honestly whether our approach is a good fit for your situation — no pressure, no obligation.

Take the fit quiz

Questions, answered plainly